Have a meaningful weekend this sunday!!
Nick and me brought my MIL to shop for swimming costume as my mummy date her for a swim. We went to several shops in Ang Mo Kio before we find a suitable one for her. Halfway through the trip, we crave for ice cream and we went to buy ice cream. MIL like to eat fries so we sat in Mos Burger for its so called "Hokkaido ice cream" and MIL enjoyed a large packet of french fries. She really love to eat it!! After that, my mummy called and ask me to bring Nick and MIL over to hougang home.
We brought some honey mangoes up and Bambi is so happy to see all of us. My mother was so busy in the kitchen cooking dinner for them. AFter dinner, mummy served oolong tea and er jie offered us to eat cakes. After all these, we ate the honey mangoes that we bought. I nudged mummy to stop buzzing around in kitchen and sit down to talk to my MIL. They sit down and talk and watched the drama "LOVE" together. Although my mummy is not a big fan of the show, but she patiently sit down and watched it with my MIL. Meanwhile, Nick and me went tomy platform balcony and watched Mr Bean. It is a relaxing trip at home and i enjoyed the part that I can spent time with both mummies!!
I am real glad that Nick's mummy is so easy going and my mummy is so friendly to communicate with her. I hope our swimming date next will be better!! :)
Monday, June 28, 2010
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
AFter Marriage
My work has been very lagged recently. Things are getting better for married life. I have been getting used to living in hubby's place, to my MIL's cooking, to their lifestyles. I am also starting to get sticky to my hubby.... Oh my.....I think he is getting indepensible ...Oh my...i love my hubby...
Friday, June 18, 2010
Offically Mrs Thia
Yoo Hoo!!! Mrs Thia is back!!!
I have already change my set of plans, life plans and I'm closer to my goal to career (provided I will not get pregnat soon).I thought, I really thought my route to being a therapisy would be LONGER until I met up with my art therapist lecturer the other day!!!! I have been wanting to be an art therapist but he told me that this line would not survive in Singapore as art therapist is not much recognised. He introduced me to special needs instead and told me that it is in huge demand in Singapore now. Before I would even decide what kind of therapist I want to be, he suggest I get to know the different areas of special needs first and from there, I would know I would prefer to work with what type of children. He also told me that the course to study is cheaper than my master in counselling and I can be a certified therapist using the same amount. To Nick, this is a piece of good news as he is sponsoring my studies.
The lecturer suggested that I attend a meeting by a group of board certified therapist next Saturday at 10am, level 7 of National Library. There, i would be able to meet up with them while they discuss their cases and talk about the happiness and unhappiness of being a therapist. Is basically a gathering of the therapist. I am looking forward to attend the meeting. :)
At the age of 30, I am glad that I am happily married to a husband who loves me. My dear hubby prepared breakfast for me every morning. We do have our first few quarrels already and it is due to power struggle. I am learning, learning to see things in a broader prospect. It is indeed a dillema and a struggle sometimes. In short, I just don't know if I should put "Protect Myself" in priority OR "ME + YOU = US" in priority. Maybe I should combine both? Perhaps I should put plenty of love on him and increase his sense of security to solve ALL the problems that I am having now.
I have already change my set of plans, life plans and I'm closer to my goal to career (provided I will not get pregnat soon).I thought, I really thought my route to being a therapisy would be LONGER until I met up with my art therapist lecturer the other day!!!! I have been wanting to be an art therapist but he told me that this line would not survive in Singapore as art therapist is not much recognised. He introduced me to special needs instead and told me that it is in huge demand in Singapore now. Before I would even decide what kind of therapist I want to be, he suggest I get to know the different areas of special needs first and from there, I would know I would prefer to work with what type of children. He also told me that the course to study is cheaper than my master in counselling and I can be a certified therapist using the same amount. To Nick, this is a piece of good news as he is sponsoring my studies.
The lecturer suggested that I attend a meeting by a group of board certified therapist next Saturday at 10am, level 7 of National Library. There, i would be able to meet up with them while they discuss their cases and talk about the happiness and unhappiness of being a therapist. Is basically a gathering of the therapist. I am looking forward to attend the meeting. :)
At the age of 30, I am glad that I am happily married to a husband who loves me. My dear hubby prepared breakfast for me every morning. We do have our first few quarrels already and it is due to power struggle. I am learning, learning to see things in a broader prospect. It is indeed a dillema and a struggle sometimes. In short, I just don't know if I should put "Protect Myself" in priority OR "ME + YOU = US" in priority. Maybe I should combine both? Perhaps I should put plenty of love on him and increase his sense of security to solve ALL the problems that I am having now.
Thursday, June 03, 2010
I am married. Offically Mrs Thia.
Entering another phase of life.
How is my wedding? Oh, I am god damn tired!! Half way before the lunch banquet veen starts, I hope it is ending!! I am so tired till I have no mood to entertain my guests. Seriously when the banquet lunch delay to start because of nick's da sao's siblings late arrival, it fumes me up.Cause I am so tired already. And the morning plan was messy as my dear jie meis and helpers try their best to help me. To me, I think I have the most special and spectacular wedding. Because everything is planned by my friends. The video caught me in surprise and I am overwhelm by my friends' effort to make my day special. Who can have this kind of wedding???? When my friends put in their ALL to make my day a special one. Each and every one. And kind MayMay decorate my whole ballroom into a pretty heaven. I did not pay attention to the details till i looked at the wedding pictures after my wedding. I am too tensed up during my wedding as i am nervous and i freak out at EVERY cock-up-matter.It makes my face charcoal-black at each hiccup. I am so glad that everything is over!!!
Enjoy my honeymoon to bits!!! Lots of photos but some error here and there so haven't got time to upload.
How am I now? I am pampered by my husband everyday. I think he know that I am trying hard to fit into his Ang Mo Kio home so he treat me very gentle. Yesterday when i went home, i auto keep the clothes and continue to hand wash some of the tour clothes. I did not want him to be too tired. Yesterday he even called and remind me to go back his home and not my home. He always serve me and i am scared that my MIL will not be happy seeing it. I can feel he dote on me a lot. :) Seriously speaking, I am not used to his home yet but I am trying hard to do things their way so as to reduce conflicts. And i did not talk much with my MIL too. It is afterall less than a week staying there.
When I am at work, I have my own personal space and i need that. Personal space is also very important. Currently, I will still continue my active lifestyle of going out, I wanna let my MIL know that I am this pattern one lo. I am not going to be a caged bird. I still need freedom.
Just that now, I have another bird by my side....always...heheheheh
Entering another phase of life.
How is my wedding? Oh, I am god damn tired!! Half way before the lunch banquet veen starts, I hope it is ending!! I am so tired till I have no mood to entertain my guests. Seriously when the banquet lunch delay to start because of nick's da sao's siblings late arrival, it fumes me up.Cause I am so tired already. And the morning plan was messy as my dear jie meis and helpers try their best to help me. To me, I think I have the most special and spectacular wedding. Because everything is planned by my friends. The video caught me in surprise and I am overwhelm by my friends' effort to make my day special. Who can have this kind of wedding???? When my friends put in their ALL to make my day a special one. Each and every one. And kind MayMay decorate my whole ballroom into a pretty heaven. I did not pay attention to the details till i looked at the wedding pictures after my wedding. I am too tensed up during my wedding as i am nervous and i freak out at EVERY cock-up-matter.It makes my face charcoal-black at each hiccup. I am so glad that everything is over!!!
Enjoy my honeymoon to bits!!! Lots of photos but some error here and there so haven't got time to upload.
How am I now? I am pampered by my husband everyday. I think he know that I am trying hard to fit into his Ang Mo Kio home so he treat me very gentle. Yesterday when i went home, i auto keep the clothes and continue to hand wash some of the tour clothes. I did not want him to be too tired. Yesterday he even called and remind me to go back his home and not my home. He always serve me and i am scared that my MIL will not be happy seeing it. I can feel he dote on me a lot. :) Seriously speaking, I am not used to his home yet but I am trying hard to do things their way so as to reduce conflicts. And i did not talk much with my MIL too. It is afterall less than a week staying there.
When I am at work, I have my own personal space and i need that. Personal space is also very important. Currently, I will still continue my active lifestyle of going out, I wanna let my MIL know that I am this pattern one lo. I am not going to be a caged bird. I still need freedom.
Just that now, I have another bird by my side....always...heheheheh
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