Tuesday, January 26, 2010

The marriage counselling yesterday rocks!!!

Darling really lets out a lot of information and the counsellor can realise where he is coming from and gave him a lot of understanding and empathy. And from the session, i then realised how important I am to Nick. It made me feel very touched.

The counsellor commented that we are very transparent towards each other and our communication is very good. Just that, we have that missing link to make things work. As i told her, we are poor at conflict resolution. The counsellor kindly provided encourgement and ideas to us. She told us that she can feel the love we have for each other and she can feel how much we want to make things work. She even told us that we will be on very good terms if we can work things out. :)

The counsellor also reminded us that it is about US, and not ME or HIM. I would always bear that in heart.

After this session, i can feel the joy of getting married. FINALLY!!!!!!

Else, it is always about STRESS.

I can finally see the picture and our problem. We are both too selfish. We must learn to give support to one another and not to expect him to support me else he will be very stressed and vice versa. WE are ONE.

Mag went with me to "My Dream wedding" and took this picture illegally. Hee Hee!!!


It is my night gown for photoshoot. It is actually sky blue in color.


My bridal shoe from PAZZION. Love it to bits.


A closer view.


A list of things to get ready for tommorrow.


My manicure that lasted.

Hope things will go well tommorrow! And hope i will not be too tired!!

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